I am a transguy and I’ve been having a hard time getting into a relationship. I understand that the “sex” part is always in question. I can’t remember the number of times cisgender women ask me if I am post op or not on a first date! I just think they have this background of transgender men r maybe because I was referred by a common friend. I have no choice but to answer them. Yes, the first and the second dates are good but it’s only up until there. The sad part is the next time I see them, it’s either they are already in a relationship with another guy or a lesbian and most of the time, I never get to see them again.
Sometimes I wonder what’s wrong with me? Am I not attractive or interesting enough?